Getting a diagnosis of breast cancer means "Wake up, what are you doing with your life?" So you've been stuck in a marriage that has not been good for you? He's got to go. Wake up. Those people that are around you sometimes, they want to keep you the same way that you were, but you know, its either you want it, or you cease to exist as who you really are - physically as well as spiritually. The diagnosis is an opportunity for growth and change, and if you make those changes, there's no where to go but up. Its a very wonderful, wonderful life. I feel like Jimmy Stewart.