We wanted to help
Ways we helped him
Massage and touch
He didn't use medication
I played the harp
How music helps
It was very difficult. It was heart wrenching. In fact, we kept a journal about our personal feelings and experiences, because there was so much we wanted to do to help relieve the pain as much as possible. Yet we had to go with the natural process of dealing with pain whether he got better, whether he got worse.