Planning for the Last Hours and After

Planning how you want to live during the final stages of your life is an ongoing process. It can extend all the way to the final days and hours before death when you may still find decisions that are yours to make. Those decisions have to do with the people, places and activities that will surround you as you reach the very end of this life. They can even relate to the way your body is handled after death and how you will be memorialized. Here are some questions that might help you plan for a peaceful passage.

When you die, do you want to be at home?

• If the answer is yes, does your health care team think that can be managed?

• Will your family be comfortable with that?


If your death will occur in a hospital or nursing home environment:

• Have you taken steps to make sure it comes peacefully, without CPR, or other interventions?

• Have you made arrangements to allow those you want at your bedside to be there?


Do you know who you want to see before you die? Who would you like to have with you when you die?

• Have you told those people you want them to be present?

* Have you asked them if they feel comfortable doing so?


Are there rituals from religious or family tradition or from some other source that you want to have performed around the time of your death? Have you contacted those who would need to be involved?

Is there anything you want to add to the environment around you, such as candles or changes in lighting, special readings, or music you would like to have playing?

Have you thought about your choices regarding burial, cremation, and organ donation?

Have you thought about what you would like to happen at a funeral or memorial service? Spoken with family, friends, or a funeral director about your wishes? Picked out music or readings?

Do you have questions about the very end of the dying process, about what happens to the body and what you may experience? Read Signs that Death Is Near.


Catherine Making funeral plans
Final hours
Corrine Talking about my death and funeral

Inga

Planning for my funeral

Jeanne

He planned his own funeral
Funeral music
Linda I want to die at home
We made all the funeral arrangements

My brother has my list for my funeral

Ricky

How I want to die

Signs that Death Is Near





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